Husbands

I love mine. Most of the time. I just get baffled by what they consider okay behavior. farting, burping, and stinking of the house is considered part of a normal day in the life of a man. I wonder how this came to be acceptable behavior? I mean seriously how many women really enjoy these traits in a man?

I could make a list of things that Seth does to drive me absolutely crazy. and trust me it would be long. and it keeps getting longer and longer and longer everyday. I am always finding something new to mentally add to the list of shit he does that drives me bonkers. The latest being:

Waking the baby at 6am in his quest to get ready for work. Its the most annoying thing to have to deal with a screaming baby at 6am when you know that without the noise they would easy sleep till 9. BIG BIG difference between 6am and 9am dont you think? Yet my lovely husband doesnt understand why we must live in a library in order for the baby to sleep. Well tell me how many people do you know out there really can sleep when there is a ton of noise? I know there are some of you but Greyson is not one of them.

Add to the fact that for the last 3 years we have chosen to call a 36 foot 5th wheel home. This decision was made before the baby carriage ever came to mind. and needless to say was not the best decision I have ever come to with Seth. But 3 years ago we had just lost a baby and decided that if we were going to continue doing the work my husband loves it was the best way to go. At the time it fit and now not so much.

So now you can see how Greyson cant sleep through your everyday noise... ummm could it be because his room is the dining room which is directly or basically in the kitchen/living room? Yeah umm that might be it..

Now it seems everyday I find something new to hate about living in the RV and cant wait until the day comes when we can move out. Which is slowly coming up. Thankfully.

And since someone might be curious how we manage to live in an RV with a one year old. Well here you go. Here is his room aka dining room :)

My sons first haircut.

Well it was time. His hair has been getting longer and longer and it was time to stop pretending we were hippies. So today my 13month old got his very first hair cut and im sad about it. He no longer looks like my little baby but instead is turned into this little boy. Who knew that hair could do that? Cause I sure didnt.

I of course wanted to take him some place special that made a huge ordeal of out the fact that for the first time ever his hair would be cut. My husband on the other hand not so much. He wanted to just go to wal-mart and have it done. Well guess who won.. .....

The husband. Only because the special place was almost a 40mintue drive from where we live and I could hear it now about how far we were going just to get his hair cut. I envisioned him sitting in the special little car (even though he screams when I have tried to do this at wal-mart), smiling and laughing at me while getting his hair cut. In reality it went like this...

We got there and the girl who was to cut his hair said oh just sit him in the chair. At that moment I wanted to walk out because I thought there is no way this girl knows what she is doing if she thinks a one year old is just going to sit in that big chair all by him self and stay there. Right? I mean seriously who thinks that?

Instead I said he wont sit there and told his daddy to sit down and hold him while I tried to destract him and pray that my child doesn't come out with a huge gap out of the side of his head.

All i can say is thank god for cheerios and puffs because I held open the snack bag while he worried about stuffing his face instead of what was happening on his head. So it went off without a hitch except one ear is cut a tad shorter than the other side but hardly noticeable unless your the mom :)

I am very sad that he now looks like a big boy instead of the little baby with the hippie hair that I took in there. But you know what? He could care less...funny how that works

my intro

I have many things I think I would like to say and what better place than a blog. Everyone blogs now right?

A little about me. I am almost 26, I have been married almost 3 years but we have been together for 7, I have 2 sons one who passed on at 23 weeks pregnancy, and the love of my life Greyson who just turned one in July.

This blog will be about the life of a mom, a wife and most important a women. Seriously who ever thought that being all three of these things was easy? I know you have heard of it or know someone who pretends to have it all......but let me tell you they are lying. Its just not possible. Its hard work to join the roles of each of these women we must become or better yet are expected to become.

Since we stay at home we are expected to do it all. The endless list of things that must get done is ever ending. There is always something new to add to my to do list. Everyday a new items appears on the already 10 pages that I need to start checking off.

Im sure you can relate. So this blog is my attempt to share my view of mommy,wife, and woman with everyone. It will be random posts on my daily life and just whatever is on my mind. This should be interesting.